The Women's March on Washington

posted on: Monday, January 23, 2017

On Saturday January 21st 2017, the day after the new administration took office, nearly half a million women, men and children descended on the capitol to participate in the Women's March on Washington. In every state in America and on every continent world wide sister marches were held in solidarity, adding millions more to that number. 

We marched to send a clear and powerful message to the new administration that we will not tolerate lies and hate. We respect, support and are ready to defend the most marginalized along us. We are watching and listening to everything our new president says and does and when he fails our brothers and sisters we will make our voices heard. 

We do not consent to a ban on an entire religious group of people from entering our country. A country that was founded on the principle of religious freedom. We do not believe a person who mocks someone with a disability in a public forum has any business being the voice of our country. We marched for the sexual assault survivor who, betrayed, watched as her country knowingly elected a man who has bragged about violating women. We marched so she knows she is not in this alone. We marched because in this country white women make only 79 cents for every dollar a white man earns. Only 60 cents on the dollar for black women, and only 55 cents on the dollar for hispanic women. We marched because black lives matter, because love is love, because climate change is real. Because facts matter. We marched because we don't want walls that keeps us from one another. 

It was moving, and empowering and healing. I cried many, many happy tears. But it also left me more energized than ever to keep fighting, keep resisting and to call others to action. When my sisters rise, I rise. I implore you to use your voices to speak out. Call your senator and let them know that the cabinet members asking to be appointed are wildly unqualified and inappropriate nominees. Use your dollars to donate to causes you believe in. A few of my recommendations would be Planned Parenthood, The Southern Poverty Law Center, the ACLU and Use your vote in not just major elections but also in mid term and local elections in your own community. Educate yourself about the systemic racism inherent in this country. Read books by minorities and those whose lives and experiences are vastly different from your own. Hone your empathy. Acknowledge your privilege. Keep seeking the truth even when it is unpleasant and uncomfortable. Open your eyes. Use your time, use your talents and use your rage to make a difference. Do not sit idly by. If you have been sleeping, this is your wake up call. Silence is compliance. 

A Cabin in the Catskills

posted on: Thursday, January 12, 2017

Josh and I just celebrated our TEN year wedding anniversary on the 6th! I sort of can't believe we've been married an entire decade, but I can also barely even remember what life was like before Josh, so next thing you know, here we are! Alive and happy and old and married ;) But most importantly, he's still my best friend after all these years. I can't imagine doing life with anyone else. We celebrated the momentous occasion with a momentous 12 course meal at Trentina and then skipped town the next day for a long weekend in the Hudson Valley. I found the DREAMIEST cabin on Airbnb which was the perfect setting for a cold January weekend with my love.

The cabin had a proper bedroom but who could resist this cozy sleeping nook?! It took all my willpower to pry myself out from under those blankets each morning. We spent the next few days watching movies in bed and drinking coffee and playing card games in front of the wood burning stove. It fulfilled all my coziest fantasies. The most hygge of anniversaries and I never wanted it to end.

About 25 minutes away from the cabin is the adorable little town of Narrowsburg, NY where we ate at the Heron Restaurant which quickly became my new favorite restaurant and will forever hold a special place in my food loving heart. The atmosphere, the staff, the music and decor and my god, THE FOOD. Unfortunately, it's a whole two states away from me now which is really gonna put a damper on my ability to eat there every single day like I did while we were in New York.


The Delaware river and the scenic and beautiful (even in January) Hudson Valley

There is some amazing shopping in downtown Narrowsburg

We spent our final night back at the cabin reminiscing about our early days of dating and living together and thinking back on those good ol' days. We decided the most appropriate way to end our anniversary weekend would be to commemorate it with an old dating tradition of ours. Eating pizza rolls in bed while watching tv. If we aren't the gold standard for marriage aspirations then I don't know what is. Nobody does romantic quite like we do. 

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